Saturday came, and I
nervously picked up the phone to call Viviana’s house at precisely two o’clock.
One of her house parents reprimanded me once in the past for calling at the
wrong time. I hated to do anything to jeopardize her trust in me. I wanted and
needed her support more than anything. However, Juan David assured me I already
had their permission.
I asked for Viviana, and they
passed the phone right to her.
“Tía!” She squealed when she heard my voice, especially on a Saturday. I
asked about Juan David, and she eagerly passed the phone to him. He said hello
and almost immediately passed the phone to Julian.
“When are you coming for my brother and sister?” Wow. What could I say?
“The process is complicated, but we’re trying to keep things moving as
quickly as we can.” I don’t remember anything else we might have said to each
other that day, but I’ll never forget hearing his voice for the first time.
His voice sounded similar
to Juan David’s voice, but definitely older. We held a short conversation
before he passed the phone back to Juan David. He and Viviana passed the phone
back and forth a few times before they needed to go. I loved connecting with
them together to witness more of their brother-sister relationship.
It couldn’t be much longer now. Our relationship felt more real every
day. God allowed too many things to progress. I could not even fathom Him
tearing it apart. He must have allowed me to grow even closer to them for a
reason.
Now September, things got
tense as our whole life hung in the air. Mike saved his vacation for the entire
year in order to take as much time as possible to stay in Colombia with me to
complete the adoption. His year started over again in late September, meaning
he’d lose the vacation he never used from the previous year.
I relayed the situation to my agency’s director. “Is there any way you
can request for us to appeal in person specifically within the next two weeks
due to our job circumstances?”
“Yes, of course. I will make the request right away. Just be ready.”
Finally! We could possibly
arrive in Colombia within another week or two! Sadly, all the adoption rules
changed significantly since the last family’s successful appeal. They appealed,
won, and stayed to complete the adoption. We would have to travel once to
appeal, return home to await approval, complete more paperwork and finally
travel again, months later, to complete the actual adoption.
I informed my substitute of
every little change, which I’m sure drove her crazy. As much as I wanted to
appear as a responsible teacher, I couldn’t keep it up. My teammates finally
told me I couldn’t keep trying to over plan. We all teach the same things,
anyway, so they offered to pass on their own lesson plans to my substitute in
my absence.
So many details to think
about! We contacted David’s teachers to explain the possibility of him
traveling soon. We also made sure a room still remained available at the
adoption hotel in Colombia. I even started pack! We just needed an actual date to
purchase the airline tickets.
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